What is the best time to get pregnant?

The best time to get pregnant

If you’re planning on starting a family it’s a good idea to understand how your body works and when in your cycle you are most likely to fall pregnant

the best time to get pregnant

Is there a best time to get pregnant?

Everyone’s menstrual cycle is different but you are most likely to get pregnant if you have sex within a day or so of ovulation.

How do I know if I’m ovulating?

Ovulation is when an egg is released from one of your ovaries. It usually occurs around two weeks after the first day of your last period if your cycle is around 28 days long.

Some women claim to know exactly when they’re ovulating while others don’t notice at all. But if you’re planning on getting pregnant it’s wise to look out for these three main signs that you’re ovulating.

  • Vaginal discharge with a stretchy egg white consistency. This is known as fertile mucus.
  • Mittelschmerz –pain on one side of your lower back or abdomen which can be range from a dull ache to a stabbing pain
  • Increased libido

One of the simplest ways of working out your fertile days is to check your cervical mucus every day. Changes to your mucus are one of the easiest things for you to spot. An egg survives for between 12-14 hours after being released, so in order to get pregnant the egg needs to be fertilised by a sperm within this time.

How can I ensure I will get pregnant?

There is no way to guarantee you will get pregnant, but there are things you can do to increase your chances.

Having sex every two days will mean that there is always sperm in the fallopian tubes to meet the egg when it is released. Amazingly, sperm can live for up to seven days inside a woman’s body, so if you’ve had sex in the days leading up to ovulation there will be sperm in the fallopian tubes ready to meet and fertilise the egg.

What is my fertile window?

Scheduling sex every two days isn’t always possible, so the most effective time to have sex is during what’s known as your fertile window – the five days leading up to ovulation and the day of ovulation. These six days are when you are at your most fertile.

You can use our ovulation calculator to help determine your fertile window. And read our article on how to boost your chances of getting pregnant.

What if my periods are irregular?

When you ovulate depends on the length of your menstrual cycle and also how regular your periods are.

So, if your menstrual cycle length varies from month to month, your fertile window may also vary by about a week between each period. An irregular cycle doesn’t necessarily mean you are less fertile, but it can be more difficult to pinpoint your fertile window. So you may find it easier to just have regular sex throughout your cycle every two or three days or whenever you notice fertile mucus.

If your cycle is more than 36 days long, it is worth talking to your GP about running a few basic fertility tests. Irregular periods can sometimes be due to conditions such as polycycstic ovarian syndrome or a thyroid disorder which can both affect your fertility so it’s worth seeking medical advice earlier rather than later.


Are You Ready For A Baby? Checkout This.

Whether you’re planning your first baby or your fifth, even the quietest new addition can change everything.

From your career plans and income, to finances and life for older siblings. So what do you need to consider before you take plunge?

Are you ready for a baby?

Finances under fire!

Even if you don’t splurge on all the latest gorgeous kit, having a baby can get expensive. Think about whether you can manage on one income, or cover the extra childcare costs? Will you need to move to a bigger house or buy a bigger car? It’s a good idea to save in advance – not only does it teach you how to cut back, but it will gather together a tidy lump sum to help you through maternity leave. Also consider which costs, like life insurance, you can’t afford to cut.

Ready for responsibility?

While babies are the best thing in the world, let’s be honest – they do stop you going out as often, bully you with lack of sleep and pretty much banish those luxury lie-ins! We all know it’s 100 per cent worth it – but are you ready right now?

What about work?

Balancing your gorgeous children with a fulfilling a career is do-able, but it takes some serious consideration, ingenuity and sometimes compromise. What will you do about your job? Will you go back to work? Will you stay at home? Can you work part time? Will your partner be flexible with their work? You don’t have to decide anything now, but it’s good to find out what you both think before you get started.

Need a bigger pad?

Do you need to take on a bigger property to fit in your new little person? They may start off snuggled into a moses basket, but it won’t be long before their stuff is exploding all over the house and the spare room becomes a nursery.

Family dynamics

How will a new baby affect your other kids and the overall family dynamic? Many children love the idea of having a younger brother or sister to look after and can be very caring and helpful. But others may be less certain, especially if you’re having this baby with a new partner. Have a think about how your children will react and ways you can help prepare them for the change, so they enjoy having a new sibling.

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